Making an impact in the world today seems too big a task at times – but as we watch the world economy go pear-shaped, it is important that we think of small ways in which we can make the world – or at least, our little corner of it – a better place. Small towns like mine are seeing a lot of new people desperately trying to find a lifestyle they can afford. Rents and houses are cheaper in the country, and if you live in a good growing area, fresh food is abundant and low priced when in season.
Working at a charity shop, I see many of these new people looking for cheap clothes and furniture. They often ask me where they can go in town to find other charity shops, government services and the best places for groceries and so on. I have been wondering what we can do to make the move easier for them, and to make them feel part of the community, apart from selling them cheap goods.
Years ago, I read about `welcome wagons’ in suburbs, when the new neighbours would arrive on the doorstep with some baked goods, lots of smiles and a map to the local services in the area. I don’t know if communities still do this – perhaps the intense mobility of our society makes it redundant. But I liked the idea of the map, and thought that maybe we could offer our customers something similar.
I drew up the map today – a very simple one, with the major streets marked out, and places of interest, such as other charity shops, a place where you can buy second hand white goods, the free library and so on, marked on it. These are the places people are looking for when they ask directions in the shop. I plan to have the map photocopied at the library and place the copies on the counter.
When we moved in here, the lady across the street came over and welcomed us. It wasn’t exactly the Welcome Wagon of old, but it made us feel at home and like we had already made a friend. Such simple kindnesses make this town a pleasure to live in – volunteering to help in the community was something I had never tried before, but now I love it. I enjoy dressing up the shop for Halloween and other celebrations, putting goods aside for those who have requested something (and enjoying their happy response when I surprise them with it) and generally getting to know some of the gallant, brave and beautiful people here.
When the task of making the world a better place looks overwhelming, start with a small thing – it soon mushrooms and you find yourself able to help in many ways. My friends in Soul Food are wonderful people who spend a lot of time nurturing the creativity in others, and making everyone feel special. The web is a wonderful way to connect with people in this way. You can find sites that offer ways of helping people in poor countries, just with a daily click, forums where you can share your expertise and advice, sites where you can take surveys and donate your earnings to charity, and sites like Squidoo where you can set up a website on something that interests you, and donate the earnings from your page views.
My hero, Mother Teresa, did not worry about changing the world. She set about changing what was right in front of her, in Calcutta. She said “There are no great things, only small things with great love.” She also said, “Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow has not yet come. We have only today. Let us begin.” Yes, let us begin.